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Shop Indie Week

Happy Monday, we’re one week away from our Shop Indie Challenge! 

We’re challenging you to #shopindie all next week and support small, independent businesses in the UK.

We love, value and support our independent suppliers and we’re wanting to shine a spotlight on them and show you why you should be shopping indie. We also want to challenge you to think about where you’re spending your money and consider whether you can actually get more value for your money by shopping indie. 

Not only does shopping indie mean that your money is going to support small, British businesses, rather than giant, super-rich big business, it often means that you get much more for your money. This is true both in terms of the actual product itself, which can be handmade, personalised or changed to suit your needs and is great quality, but also in relation to the customer service you receive. To an independent business owner, you, the customer, are the most wonderful person because you value what they do. This means that the indie business owner will do all they can to make you happy and exceed expectations. Big business isn’t able to value you and treat you in this way as they don’t know who you are. So, think small and give our independent suppliers a chance to impress you. 

We will be sharing lots of great promotions, competitions and indie items that will make you swoon. So invite your friends to the Facebook group and get ready to be treated! 

Veil ||  Sash + Veil

Veil || Sash + Veil

Here at And so to Shop, we support the little guy, shouting about what our amazing suppliers do and bringing you the best in handmade creations. Most of our items can be personalised, meaning that you get something very special and totally unique. Be inspired by our style driven blogs, And so to WedAnd so to Family and And so to Style then shop the look here at And so to Shop. Everything we do is driven by love, love of handmade, love of unique and love of our fantastic suppliers. So shop happy and help UK indie businesses realise their dream.

Wedding Favour || Ovo Bloom

Wedding Favour || Ovo Bloom

Cake Topper ||  Suzanne Oddy Design

Cake Topper || Suzanne Oddy Design

With more and more high street retailers such as Topshop offering new wedding ranges there have been huge discussions across the wedding world about the role of the highstreet in your wedding. Some in the industry are outraged that highstreet stores are encroaching on their specialist area of expertise, others welcome the competition and diversity. Whilst it’s generally accepted that flocking to the highstreet for certain wedding items, bridesmaid’s shoes or hen do costumes, is the norm, some wedding couples may only consider mainstream or highstreet suppliers when shopping for their wedding, unaware that there is a whole other world of wedding wonderfulness out there - the world of the independent business. Whatever you think of the high street's wedding range, whether you love, hate or feel totally indifferent towards it, we want to show you how and why you should consider going independent.

‘Why should I shop independent?’ was a question I was recently asked by a bride-to-be who had just got engaged. My reaction was to blurt out so many words at once that it came out as a garbled noise accompanied by my arms flying up in the air. Having ran an Etsy business for many years, I feel very passionately about supporting small business and the values and ethos that goes with it. I know from my own experience how wonderfully talented our small business owners are and just how much they can offer wedding couples in so many ways. Trying to encapsulate years of experiences into a one-sentence answer to the question ‘Why should I shop independent?’ is very difficult, so I am instead going to put it into a blog post.

Get What You Want - By going independent, it often means you can get exactly what you want and I mean, exactly! Think of the colour, size, detail, shape, quality, feel, you name it, some talented person somewhere will be able to make it for you. If you buy from a large corporation it will be the same as all the other stock of that design, which may be fine. However, if you buy from a small business you have that flexibility to request changes. They usually offer a bespoke way of working allowing you to make design or colour changes or request something totally new that you wouldn’t get from a larger business. So if you want a pair of shoes that perfectly match the colour of your flowers, a smaller business can do this for you. If you are looking to have a totally unique wedding dress, buying off the rack is not going to be the best way for you, go independent. Are you looking for a unicorn wedding veil? Yes it does exist, you can have it made to order and here’s where you can get it. So my point is, that by shopping independent, you can get something totally unique, designed to be what you want and because of that, it makes it really special. 

Personalised Wedding Sign ||  Emily K Weddings

Personalised Wedding Sign || Emily K Weddings

Get looked after - A common misconception is that in buying from a small business, you will get something less, actually, in most cases it means the opposite. Smaller businesses often have fewer clients, making you that bit more special to them as a customer and they therefore pay more care and attention to your needs. They also rely on word of mouth and a positive customer experience to keep their business going so will make sure that you have the aftercare that many larger businesses neglect. Lastly, because their business is their business and not someone else's, they want to make sure you are happy. They have gone into business because they love what they do, they have a passion for it and are good at it - this is great motivation to make sure that you, the customer, gets the best service/item possible. 

Bridal Hair Pins ||  Sixpenny Bride

Bridal Hair Pins || Sixpenny Bride

Get experience, talent and creativity - When buying from a small business you are buying from someone who is an absolute expert in their area. They don’t tend to offer a wide range of different items/services like a highstreet brand might, they have a focus and it is this special thing that you get when you buy from them. Small business owners in the wedding industry are true artisans and will create something really special for your wedding day.

Get money-wise - Shopping small often means your item/service is around the same price or potentially even cheaper as they have less running costs and are therefore able to keep prices down. If you do have to pay more to a smaller business, it is because you are getting more. You are getting that persons time, experience, creativity, quality materials and expertise that you don’t get in an item that is mass produced.

Get supportive – Lastly, in buying small you are supporting your sister who runs a wedding stationery shop on And so to Shop, your friend down the road who makes wedding favours, the woman who has attended night classes to learn how to make the best bridal headpieces in the world, the man who has worked for twenty years in award winning kitchens so that he can set up his own catering company, you are supporting people who make, create, do, love and share - not huge corporations ran by people no-one knows who simply take your money. (Just for the record, the Arcadia Group who own Topshop had an annual turnover of £2,069 million  **accounts filed 2016** I can't even comprehend that amount of money!). I know who I would rather be supporting.

Wedding Dress || Luna Bride

Wedding Dress || Luna Bride

I'll finish off by saying, I didn't intend to write an anti-highstreet piece, (although it seems to have turned out that way just a little bit!). What I did intend to do was to hopefully open your eyes to a fantastic alternative to the high street - And so to Shop. Obviously, there is no right way to plan a wedding, everyone is different and everyone is free to source their wedding items and services from wherever resonates with them. I hope I have made you think about the possibility of supporting small businesses near you and how it can be beneficial to do so. 

If you know of any fabulous small businesses near you, please share their links in our comments, we love discovering new talent! And don't forget, everyone we support at And so to Wed and And so to Shop is a small business, so if you want to shop small, why not start here

See you next week for our Shop Indie Challege! 

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